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Domestic Violence Support

The National Domestic Violence Hotline provides essential tools and support to help survivors of domestic violence.

The National Sexual Assault Hotline: (800) 656-4673 & RAINN

The Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network is the largest nonprofit anti-sexual assault organization in the United States.

National Resources

Relationship Information Resources: LoveisRespect.org

Information and support resources for young people between 13 and 26 who have questions or concerns about their romantic relationships.

Safety Net Project: Digital Technology Toolkit

Free safety tips, information, and privacy strategies for domestic violence and stalking survivors about the use of technology.

Safety Planning Resources: The Hotline & myPlan App

MyPlan is a free app to help with safety decisions if you, or someone you care about, is or may be experiencing abuse.

Social Work Education Center: DV Prevention Resources

Impact stats and a wide, categorized list of organizations, articles, helplines, and legal/safety resources for DV survivors, victims, and their supporters.

Find Local DV Organizations (California):

What is a domestic violence (DV) advocate, and how can they help me?

Safety Planning

What advocates can help with outside of court

Domestic violence advocates in California can help you think through immediate and ongoing safety concerns, whether or not you plan to file for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO). Safety planning may include discussing safer ways to communicate, document incidents, protect your location and online accounts, and plan for situations at home, work, school, or during court-related events.

Advocates do not tell you what legal steps to take, but they can help you identify risks and options based on your circumstances and connect you with crisis support if needed. Safety planning is available regardless of income, immigration status, or whether a restraining order case is pending.

Court Accompaniment

Understanding the DVRO process and court expectations

In many California counties, domestic violence advocates are available through local shelters, nonprofit organizations, or court-based programs to help explain what happens during a DVRO case. This can include reviewing hearing notices, explaining courtroom roles, helping you organize paperwork, and accompanying you to court for emotional support during a hearing.

Advocates do not represent you, speak on your behalf, or give legal advice. However, they can help you understand the DVRO process, court timelines, and what documents the judge may review—support that can be especially helpful for self-represented litigants preparing or responding to restraining order requests.

Resource Referrals

Connecting you to local and statewide support services

Domestic violence advocates can connect you with additional resources that may be relevant during or after a DVRO case, including emergency shelter, counseling, financial assistance programs, legal aid organizations, and survivor support services. Referrals are typically tailored to your location and needs.

For people navigating the DVRO process on their own, advocates can be an important bridge to services that support safety and stability alongside court proceedings. These referrals are informational and supportive in nature and are available even if you choose not to pursue a restraining order.

Representing yourself in a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO) case?

See UDIL’s in person and online DVRO services below!

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